How many times a week are you in a virtual meeting where you can literally see in the reflection of someone’s eyeglasses that they are doing something else?
Not “kind of distracted.” Not “quickly checking something.”
Completely somewhere else.
It happened to me this week with a vendor we are considering working with, and it was so rude and off-putting that it immediately changed my perception of them. It is one thing to fake attentiveness with the occasional nod and a half-hearted, “Yeah, good point.” It is another thing entirely to be visibly engaged in something else; smirking, smiling, reacting, even laughing at whatever is on your screen while someone else is speaking. Seriously, dude?
That is not multitasking. That is messaging.
And the message is loud and clear.
In a business world obsessed with efficiency and productivity, many professionals convince themselves that multitasking is harmless, even necessary. But the reality is, every time you divide your attention in a meeting, you are sending a series of powerful subliminal signals.
The question is: what exactly are you signaling?
Here are five answers.
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